Discernment is a very wonderful tool to use. It is not judgment. It is about looking at a situation, evaluating the energy of that situation from the perspective of understanding what the significance of it is, and then according to that understanding, choosing to stand still, step back or step forward. It is not judgment. When does discernment become judgment? When what is seen is an absence of light not the fullness of light. When you look at a situation and see what is lacking, what is inappropriate, you judge.