John the Beloved

Being Grounded in our Spiritual Growth

Spirituality isn’t something we chase. It’s something we remember. It’s already here, humming quietly beneath the noise of everyday life, waiting for us to slow down just enough to notice.

There’s this idea we’ve absorbed somewhere along the way – that spirituality means floating above it all, transcending our humanness, leaving the earthly behind. And maybe sometimes we need to feel that lightness. But mostly? Mostly we just need to come back down. To feel our feet on the ground. To remember we’re allowed to be here, fully here, in these beautiful, imperfect bodies.

Grounding is like a gentle hand on our shoulder, reminding us we’re safe. It’s the feeling of grass between our toes on a summer morning, or the way our whole system settles when we stop for a moment and just breathe. It’s not complicated. It’s actually the simplest thing – reconnecting with the earth that’s been holding us all along.

We are Nature

Not separate from her, not above her – woven right into her fabric. When we forget this, when we spend too much time in our heads or rushing through our days, something in us starts to feel unmoored. We lose our centre. But the moment we step outside, feel the breeze, touch the soil, place our hands on a tree – something shifts. Something softens.

Our bodies know this. They’re designed for this connection. When we make contact with the earth, our nervous systems calm, inflammation in our bodies eases, our minds quiet. It’s not magic – well, maybe it is, but it’s also just how we’re made. We need this relationship with nature for our health, for our wholeness. We’ve always needed it.

A grounded spiritual practice isn’t about getting it right or achieving some peaceful state we can hold onto. It’s gentler than that. It’s about showing up as we are – messy, uncertain, beautifully human – and letting the earth remind us we’re held. Nature is one of the simplest and most honest ways to do this. Bare feet on soil. Hands in water. A slow, steady walk linked with the rhythm of your breath. Each moment offers a gentle reminder: you belong here.

Being Thankful

And at the heart of grounding lies thankfulness—not the striving energy of gratitude practices that sometimes feel forced, but a softer, quieter appreciation. Thankfulness is the natural exhale of being present. It rises without effort when we’re connected to the earth beneath us and the life within us

Spirituality grows best when rooted in this simple presence – connected, curious, and deeply human.

There’s such relief in this. In knowing we don’t have to transcend anything. We don’t have to be more spiritual, more evolved, more anything. We just have to come back. Back to our bodies. Back to this breath. Back to the ground beneath us that’s never once stopped holding us up.

When life feels overwhelming – and it will, because we’re alive and feeling things deeply – we can return here. To our feet on the earth. To the steadiness that’s always been available. We might bend in the storm, but we won’t break. Not when we’re rooted.

This is our spirituality. Not something distant or untouchable, but right here in the warmth of sun on skin, in the smell of rain, in the quiet moment when we realise we’re thankful just to be breathing. Just to be here.

 

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2 responses

  1. Beautiful. Thank you for continuing to share your wisdom so generously. This piece is wonderful — it left me feeling calm, grounded, and quietly at ease.

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